If you read the last post by The Bitter Bitch, you’ll know all has not been great for me the past couple of days.
Imagine my surprise when I see this on my husband’s page:
It was titled: “Love is so great”
The Bitch responded: “Makes you feel young again. I’m walking on clouds! :)”
Now, I ask you, how would you feel if you saw this on your husband’s page and only he and his girlfriend had “liked” it? And, you knew it wasn’t for you?
This is after he had the nerve to say, “I don’t understand how I’m rubbing her in your face,” to me.
Geez – maybe I should spell it out in my Farmville crops so you’ll understand!
Then, this morning, this is what I see on his page:
This one was titled, “Another great sign of love.”
He sat at his desk with graph paper, in front of our children and his mother and me, and graphed this damn thing out.
I don’t know, asswipe. How are you rubbing her in my face?
What kills me about these is that he is putting it out there for the whole world to see. More importantly, he is putting it out there so that anyone in the military can see and this, along with his messages (some of which were highlighted for you in the last post) constitutes adultery under the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ). That means that he could lose his career, lose his retirement and health benefits and spend time in jail.
That means that my children could lose their health benefits.
Now, you’re messing with my kids and that isn’t kosher.
I’m at a crossroads here. My mother (who is the best mom in the world!) says I should consult a lawyer before I run off halfcocked. She’s right, I know this and I’m trying very hard to keep the halfcocked part of me in check.
But there is another part of me that wants to take this to the Chief and his Commander and make sure that they understand that he is being an asshole and that he is in violation of numerous regulations.
I definitely am going to the JAG with my copies this week. I want to know what could happen to him with this evidence. And, as a friend told me the other day, Facebook posts and messages are admissable in Court. That warms the cockles of my heart.
I think what ticks me off the most about these kinds of things on his FB page is that he is showing such disloyalty to me after 16 years of marriage. Sixteen years of supporting his career and not doing anything with mine. Sixteen years of making sure that he got to work alright, of being sick and not having anyone to take care of me because the mission was more important. Sixteen years of putting up with his mental and emotional abuse, the cracks about imaginary boyfriends that he would make to control me. Sixteen years of having to ask before I could spend a penny because it was “his” money and I didn’t have a job. Sixteen years of my life tied up with his and what the hell do I have to show for it?
Yes, I have two beautiful children that I have raised, for a good portion of their lives, almost singlehandedly. I would never regret my kids. But I regret everything else. I truly do.
I am sick of having my face rubbed in the fact that he finds me not enough for him anymore and this bitch is suddenly enough after 2o f*in’ years. What kind of relationship do they have? One built on a house of cards that consists of memories.
I can’t wait for that house to fall down around his ears. I can’t wait for him to hurt and then look around and realize that he has lost everything because he wanted to get with her.
Because, by then, I’ll have totally forgotten him and moved on with my life.
He’s not the only one that can do the forgetting.