I come from a fairly conservative family. Not in their politics, but in their talking about everything (or anything) sex. I don’t recall getting the birds and the bees talk from my mother, although I’m sure she touched on it at some point. I do, however, remember her allowing me to read a book called “Skye O’Malley,” which was quite, um, educational in its own way.
I have come to the realization that I truly enjoy sex. My younger self wants to buck at saying this in public, but I am almost 40 years old. I’m single. I’m in my “sexual prime.” And I enjoy sex.
I enjoy a variety of sex. I won’t go into gritty details (unless you happen to have a pair of handcuffs…..then, maybe, we could talk), but I have experimented with folks that I trust. I am willing to try *almost* anything once. Sometimes that has led to amazing success in bed. Sometimes, well, colossal failures. But, as my self-confidence soars, I find that I am not shying away from admitting that I ENJOY SEX.
The other day, as I was taking the kids to school, we were listening to our usual morning show on the radio. Now, we always listen to Chris and the Crew on 94.5 WPST and they usually have a list or something that they tell us about. Well, last week, it was a list called 12 Kinds of Sex Every Woman Should Have Before She Settles Down.
The Crew only read off about 3 or 4 of these, but I was curious about the rest, so I went to their page and found the list. I found it interesting when I read it, and I realized that it must have been compiled by a bunch of guys, otherwise anal sex and girl-on-girl wouldn’t have been on there.
Well, that’s my personal opinion.
But, as I read through this list, I realized that I had hit a bunch of these in the last few MONTHS. Not years, MONTHS.
And that little girl part of me, that was raised to not be the girl that slept around, cringed in shame.
But the big girl part of me, the one that has come to the realization that she really, really likes sex, turned her back on that little girl and wondered where she could get the ones she was missing from the list!
I’ll never settle down again…..well, at least that’s the plan. I want to keep it light, have some friends with bennies, hang out and do my thing. I definitely don’t want to get married again and relationships, well, they’re not on my list either.
But that doesn’t mean that I can’t have some fun horizontally with a guy that I find sexy. Or, that I can’t have a booty call just for the hell of it.
Oh, and nooners are a favorite. Mostly cause the kids are in school and I don’t have to worry about getting caught! 🙂
Maybe, someday, I’ll get tired of the “Oh, yeah, I’ve screwed him” merry-go-round. But, for right now, I find that the world is an endless buffet table of men. And I paid the admission price at the door.
Time to sample!