How many women, by show of hands, has faked an orgasm at some point in their life? *counts*
Yeah, that’s what I thought.
Every woman has done it. Maybe you just weren’t into it that night. Maybe he was just that bad. Maybe your mind was on what needed to be done for tomorrow.
Whatever the reason, there are some of us out there that deserve an Oscar for making their man feel like a man by faking their satisfaction.
I’ve done it. Don’t be ashamed. We’ve ALL done it at least once in our lives.
I felt like a phone sex operator….and I wasn’t getting paid.
I’ll admit, when my usual NSA (no strings attached) texted me earlier in the evening and started talking naughty, I couldn’t wait to have a little phone sex with him. He was talking all kinds of stuff – tying me up, spanking me, using his tongue in places that are not mentionable in polite company.
But then I picked up the kids. I ate a Subway sandwich for dinner and it didn’t agree with me, at all. At all.
I definitely wasn’t feeling like any phone sex after eating my weight in Tums and fighting with the kids to take a shower and get into bed.
But, I had already promised. And I don’t like to back out of my promises.
And I totally phoned it in.
I made all the right noises and said all the right words. I talked sexy and dirty and hmmmm’d and ahhhh’d.
I did all this while fully clothed and picking out my and the boys’ clothes for tomorrow.
Yes, I totally faked an orgasm on the phone.
He didn’t fake his 🙂
I have phone sex with this gentleman at least once a week. It’s always enjoyable. I like it because I never have to worry if I’m making stupid faces or my one-ab doesn’t look sexy in that light or that position. I can just let go and totally enjoy myself.
But it just wasn’t happening last night.
I take solace in the fact that I don’t normally do this. This was a one off deal, I hope! 🙂
But I feel a little guilty that I did phone it in….but not enough that I wouldn’t do the same thing again.
Tums, kids and showers a romantic scene do not make.
Here’s to it being better the next time….and I’ll accept my Oscar whenever the Academy decides to call!